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Parental Guidance: Talking to Kids about School Shootings

Updated: Mar 12

As parents, addressing the topic of school shootings with our children can be daunting, but it's an essential conversation to ensure their safety and emotional well-being. In this blog, we'll discuss how to approach this sensitive subject, recognize signs of anxiety, and introduce Positive Proof's unified school safety and security solutions, including a visitor management system and emergency management tools, to help parents actively contribute to creating a safer school environment for their children.

Talking to Kids about School Shootings: A Compassionate Approach

  • Create a Safe Space for Discussion: Encourage an open and non-judgmental environment where your child feels comfortable expressing their feelings. Start by asking open-ended questions like, "Have you heard about school shootings? How does it make you feel?"

  • Be Honest and Age-Appropriate: Tailor the conversation to your child's age and maturity level. Provide accurate information without overwhelming details. Assure them that you are there to keep them safe.

Recognizing Signs of Anxiety: Questions to Ask

  • Listen Actively: Pay attention to your child's behavior, mood changes, or any signs of withdrawal. Ask questions such as, "Have you been feeling anxious about going to school lately?" or "Is there anything on your mind that you want to talk about?"

  • Validate Emotions: Acknowledge their feelings and let them know it's okay to be scared or anxious. Questions like, "It seems like talking about school makes you feel worried. Can you tell me more about what's going on in your mind?"

How to Protect Your Child from School Shootings: Practical Steps

  • Visitor Management System: Implementing a visitor management system, like the one offered by Positive Proof, can help control and regulate access to the school. Parents can feel reassured knowing that only authorized individuals are on campus, enhancing overall security.

  • Emergency Management System with Wearable Panic Buttons: Positive Proof's emergency management system includes wearable panic buttons, empowering staff to alert authorities instantly in case of an emergency. Discussing these tools with your child can provide a sense of security and control.

Nightmares about School Shootings: Addressing Sleep Disturbances

  • Create a Bedtime Routine: Establish a calming bedtime routine to help alleviate anxiety. Use questions like, "Is there anything specific on your mind that might be causing these scary dreams?" to initiate conversation.

  • Reassure Safety Measures: Remind your child of the safety measures in place at their school, including emergency drills and security systems. Positive Proof's solutions contribute to a safer environment, emphasizing the importance of preparedness.

Positive Proof's Role in Creating a Secure Environment

  • Visitor Badges and Student Tardy Passes: Positive Proof's visitor badges contribute to the identification of authorized individuals on campus, ensuring a controlled environment. Student tardy passes help track attendance, adding an extra layer of security.

  • Reunification Tools for Post-Incident Support: In the unfortunate event of an emergency, Positive Proof's reunification tools ensure a well-coordinated process for reuniting students with their parents or guardians, providing post-incident support.

Empowering Parents to Take Action

  • Encourage School Involvement: Actively engage with your child's school to understand and support safety initiatives. Positive Proof's solutions are designed to enhance school safety, and your involvement can contribute to their effectiveness.

  • Foster Community Awareness: Share information about school safety initiatives with other parents. A collective effort can create a safer community for all children. Positive Proof's solutions align with this communal approach to safety.


Talking to kids about school shootings requires a delicate balance of empathy, honesty, and practical solutions. Positive Proof's unified school safety and security solutions provide tangible steps for parents to actively contribute to creating a secure school environment. By fostering open communication and implementing proactive measures, we can work together to ensure the safety and well-being of our children and the entire school community.


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